The Process for VIP Members
At Betty Hamilton Matchmakers, we make the process as fun and enlightening as possible. Members say the process to becoming a member can bring increased self-awareness. When singles go through our unique pre-screening questionnaire and interview, they may get a new found sense of who they are and what they are looking for in a significant other.

HOW DOES THE PROCESS WORK?
Why invest your valuable time, energy, and emotions in fruitless dates that lead nowhere? At Betty Hamilton Matchmakers, we offer a seamless, sophisticated approach to finding your ideal match. Our exclusive service provides a meticulously curated selection of distinguished candidates, each aligned with your refined preferences and high standards.
Hiring a matchmaker means entrusting the search to experts while you focus on the demands of your exceptional lifestyle. As you navigate your busy world, we dedicate ourselves to an elite, hands-on process—carefully selecting, screening, and personally interviewing every potential match.
In essence, we date them first, ensuring they meet your expectations before ever making an introduction. Only when we identify a potential partner who embodies the qualities you seek will we arrange a discreet and seamless introduction.
Contact us for a private consultation. We look forward to discovering more about you—your background, personality, lifestyle, and relationship aspirations—as well as defining the caliber of partner you desire. Let us craft a bespoke matchmaking experience worthy of your time and status.
01 ~ INITIAL INQUIRY & CONSULTATION
The journey begins with an exclusive, private consultation where we gain a deep understanding of your relationship goals, lifestyle, and partner preferences. Every client is meticulously vetted to ensure our services align with their standards and expectations. This is your opportunity to share your vision for an ideal match, and our opportunity to craft a bespoke strategy tailored to your desires.
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Our process begins with an application or direct inquiry through our website.
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A private consultation is scheduled to discuss your background, relationship aspirations, and preferences.
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Our team carefully evaluates compatibility to ensure we can meet your high standards before proceeding.
02 ~ BACKGROUND CHECK
After we get to know you, it is mandatory to undergo a comprehensive background check. To be accepted as a Betty Hamilton Matchmakers client, you must subject to this exclusive screening. Let’s face it—safety and discretion are paramount in elite matchmaking. Every client, as well as the individuals they are introduced to, undergoes the same rigorous process to ensure an exclusive and secure dating experience. This means that when you embark on your matchmaking journey, you can do so with complete peace of mind, knowing that your matches have been thoroughly vetted.
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As part of our commitment to security and discretion, every VIP client must pass an international background check. The same applies to Dating Affiliates and Free Membership applicants.
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This step ensures the highest level of trust, integrity, and confidentiality for all parties involved.
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The background check includes identity verification, criminal record screening, social standing assessment, and reputation analysis across international databases.
03 ~ BESPOKE MATCHMAKING STRATEGY
Once you are officially a Betty Hamilton client, we curate a highly personalized matchmaking strategy designed to align with your elite lifestyle and romantic aspirations. With our unparalleled access to an exclusive network of high-caliber individuals, we meticulously source potential matches who meet your exacting standards.
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A dedicated matchmaker is assigned to personally oversee your search.
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We leverage elite scouting channels, international social circles, and private introductions to identify exceptional matches.
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Every candidate is carefully vetted, ensuring alignment with your preferences, values, and expectations.
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Confidentiality and discretion remain our top priorities at every stage of the process.
04 ~ PERSONALIZED SELECTION & INTRODUCTION
Time is your most valuable asset, and we ensure it is never wasted on mismatches. Each introduction is hand-selected based on an extensive, in-depth evaluation process to guarantee compatibility.
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Every match is pre-screened and aligned with your specific relationship goals and lifestyle.
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You will receive an exclusive preview of your matches before any introductions are made.
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Private introductions are arranged at sophisticated venues or through a curated experience tailored to your preferences.
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Whether it’s an intimate fine dining experience or an exclusive social event, we ensure your introductions are seamless, elegant, and unforgettable.
05 ~ EXCLUSIVE DATING EXPERIENCE
Your dating experience should be nothing short of extraordinary. At Betty Hamilton Matchmakers, we go beyond introductions to create refined and memorable encounters. From securing premier reservations to organizing bespoke date experiences, we ensure every moment is flawlessly orchestrated.
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Personalized date planning services, ensuring a seamless and luxurious experience.
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Concierge-level assistance for all your dating arrangements, from venue selection to personalized touches.
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Ongoing feedback sessions to refine future matches and enhance your journey.
06 ~ CONTINUED SUPPORT & REFINEMENT
Matchmaking is a journey, not a single event. We provide ongoing support, guidance, and fine-tuning to ensure your experience continues to align with your evolving needs and desires.
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Post-date feedback sessions help us refine your matchmaking experience.
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Continuous optimization of matches based on your insights and evolving preferences.
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The option to extend matchmaking services or transition into exclusive relationship coaching.
07 ~ RELATIONSHIP GUIDANCE & SUCCESS
At Betty Hamilton Matchmakers, we are not just matchmakers—we are architects of lasting, meaningful connections. Our relationship coaching services provide you with expert guidance to cultivate and sustain a fulfilling, high-value partnership.
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Personalized relationship coaching to strengthen your connection with your match.
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Exclusive check-ins to ensure long-term success and happiness.
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A concierge approach to romance, ensuring your relationship flourishes beyond the introduction stage.